Don't get me wrong. I like doing things with other players, that is part of the fun too, but I will not let myself become dependent of others, and have to wait for them to come online, before I can do whatever it is I want to do.
If I have the jewels to open the gate to Sorkall, I open the gate to Sorkall. If someone else goes down there and kills him without me being there, I am totally fine with that. That is how the game is.
If you yourself open the gate to Sorkall 10 times, and kills him without me being there, I am totally fine with that too. That doesn't mean that we can't agree on sharing jewels another time, and go down there and fight him together.
What you and I agree to do together, and what we do on our own when the other person is not there, are two different things, and I do not like to be blamed for what I do on my own.